Tuesday, August 15, 2017

Aging Update


 I know, 2 posts this week? What the heck? 

When I was over here yesterday I read the last thing I posted, 8 months ago about aging.  Things have definitely changed on that front!

1. I now LOVE my hair!  No dye, just a great cut and good shampoo.  The gray roots are now gray streaks.  I especially love the gray streaks at my part.  It's not quite as cool as Rogue, but not bad for Mother Nature.
The texture of my hair feels so good.  It feels like it did when I was much younger, before I started trying to hide the silver sparkles.  It's shiny, soft and it moves.  Sorry, I'm kind of in love my hair right now.  I can't stop touching it. :)


 

2. My feet have recovered and I'm wearing heels again (occasionally) without pain. I bought a good pair of b.o.c. sandals.  They are only sort of ugly, and have GREAT arch support.  After we moved in February, I pretty much wore my hiking boots daily until it got warm, and I still wear them when hiking.  The big lesson here - DON'T WEAR CHEAP SHOES!!!!  Your feet carry you around everyday and they deserve some respect and support.

3. I noticed once again, that I am not nearly as tall, or thin, in reality as I am in my mind.  I saw my reflection in the glass door of a freezer at the store today and was shocked once again. (Who's that short, stumpy lady with the fabulous hair?? Oh, it's me!  No!)   Not sure why, but it still surprises me.  I also think of myself as more graceful and athletic than I really am.  I KNOW I am not a ninja or a ballerina, but I wish I were.  It's also quite possible that I am not as smart as I once thought I was.

4. Being a grandmother is FANTASTIC!  I love those 2 wild little guys so much it's crazy!  Being with them doesn't make me feel old.  They actually make me feel younger.  Playing, actually letting go of all restraint and playing, with a child, is very good for my soul.  They make me laugh and smile every single day. 

5. I started wearing contacts again a few months ago.  It's really fabulous to be able to see!  I needed multi-focal lenses and I could never get used to them in glasses, so I just wore my reading glasses mostly.  I lost my distance sunglasses in the ocean - sad, but true.  These multi-focal contacts are AMAZING!!  I love the rich details of the world that are now clear to me.  (Note all the nature pics on social media.)  It is also a fact that the skin around my eyes looks much better when I take OUT my contacts.  (So does the grout around the bathroom sink.)

5. I'm taking more vitamins, trying not to eat so much junk, and exercising when it's fun (mostly hiking when I can). 

Life is too short to not enjoy it, and too precious to squander.  Each day is a gift.

Sunday, August 13, 2017

The More Things Change, the More They Stay the Same

Is blogging dead?  Mine is - 8 months with  no post is pretty much dead.  I love to express myself through the written word, so what gives?  My expressions have been reduced to Facebook and IG posts.  Can't do Twitter, even at my briefest, I need more than 140 characters.

I have been recently asked to write blog posts for a couple of clients.  I was like, sure, I blog, I can do that.  But seriously, I haven't blogged since before Christmas!  Are my skills rusty?  What is a blog post but a short essay with a couple of flashy photos?  So all these years since school, and I'm still writing essays.  I admit I prefer getting paid in dollars rather than grades.

Whatever, this blog post is dumb, and too short, and kind of pointless.  I'm really profound over on social media - I'll go post another nature photo over there were get paid in likes. :)

Thursday, December 1, 2016

Aging Gracefully, or Otherwise

My daughter says my gray hair is pretty.  I think she is lying to me.  But whatever ... I'm not dying it anymore - for now - maybe - I might change my mind tomorrow.  Some days I'm cool with it, and others I look in the mirror and wonder, "who is this old gal?".  Hair dye doesn't really change anything - it's just smoke and mirrors - still the same old m e under the illusion, but sometimes the truth is hard to look at.  Is there some sort of rule, like the one about wearing white after Labor Day, about at what age you should just go ahead and go gray?  How old is too old to have long hair?  Is there then yet another milestone age when it's cool again to have super long hair?  I'm just not educated about all the rules of aging.  I never intended to do it, but alas, here I am, just this side of 50 and well, let's just say, I don't get carded for cough syrup anymore.

And then there is the subject of my feet.  They hurt.  I have pretty much given up on heels because I don't like pain.  I've been wearing slippers for months.  (Just in case you are not familiar with the way we say things in Hawaii, slippers are not house shoes, they are flip flops, or thongs if you are from the 70's or 80's before a thong became something obscene.)  They don't pinch or squeeze any part of the foot, but they still hurt - because they are flat.  At least the ones I wear.  The super flat ones look pretty.  They look like a pretty naked foot with just a little splash of color with a strap or a small buckle.  Eventually flat shoes make your feet hurt.  Your arch needs some support.  Your foot needs at least a little cushion.   I like the look of flat, skinny, minimalist slippers, big tall boots, or sleek skinny heels.  I think all running shoes are hideous, along with all the sensible shoes in the world.  They look terrible.  Ballerina flats, are flat, but I hate the way they look on my feet. (I think it has to do with my ankles - they are thick.  Nice and sturdy and sensible, but not my idea of nice looking.)  Oh yeah, I also like the look of Converse and have a couple pair, and they also make my feet hurt.  They are too flat, too narrow, have minimal arch support and no cushion to speak of.  They are more uncomfortable than heels or flats.  Am I doomed to sore feet or ugly shoes? 

So if some day in the not too distant future, you see someone that kind of looks like me, except they have long, wild, frizzy, gray hair and and are wearing a pair Sketchers or Crocs, go ahead and say hello.  I'm probably eating chocolate and I will share.  I'm still cool, even if my shoes and hair say otherwise.

Monday, November 28, 2016

Homeless Newborns

There is something amiss in this world when a small apartment, in terrible condition - not even safe, or sanitary - rents for over $900/month, where a blind woman depends on her 4 year old grand daughter to be her eyes, where in a homeless camp of 300, 85 are children, 5 of which are newborns. FIVE homeless newborns!  There are 2 newborns living in my home right now and I cannot even imagine them homeless.  It breaks my heart, and makes me want to scream.  How can we being doing such a poor job of it down here that our most innocent, precious, and vulnerable are homeless?  Welcome to the world you precious child of God ....

Seriously, homeless newborns??  I can't get over it.  Those mothers - how are they caring for themselves as they recover from pregnancy and birth?   How can this be?  I know, I know - we make our own choices in life and that determines where we end up.  I am a big advocate of personal responsibility.  I think people should work hard, follow the rules, and be responsible.  But do you know how much work it takes to afford that much rent?  How much it takes to just cover the very basics?  It's not as simple as all that.  Sometimes life gets darn near impossible.

Thank goodness it doesn't get cold here, but a home provides so much more than warmth.  A home provides safety, and shelter.  It provides a place of sanctuary from the world.  It's a place to belong, to feel safe and loved.  How does growing up homeless shape a child?

All they are asking for is clean bedding and towels for the kids for Christmas.  That's it - just a bit of comfort and the means to be clean.  We are a greedy and selfish society that consumes flat screen tvs and decorator seasonal throw pillows while newborns - NEWBORNS - don't have a roof over their heads!  Something is waaaaay out of wack.  We need a society wide priority check.  There are homes, there are empty buildings, there is plenty for all, if we would only live up to our divine birth right and love our neighbors as ourselves. 

I just can't even imagine ..... but there is no need to imagine.  It's reality, just down the road.  Life is fragile, we must treat each other better.  If don't, we are failing the test.  We are failing.  I must do something.  Even if my efforts are one feeble stroke against the strong current, I must try.  Won't you try too?

UPDATE 12/1/16:
We gathered up sheets, towels, clothes, baby items, food, etc and donated a trunk full today.  It's so much better for those extra things to of use rather than taking up space in our crowded house.  Why do so many of us humans have the innate desire to hoard stuff?  If having a clean towel is good, then having 20 is better, right?  Wrong!  Having tons of stuff is a burden.  Let go and be of use.  Free your stuff.

Monday, July 11, 2016

Makua Caves

July 4, 2016

Hiking on July 4th has become a tradition.  One I intend to continue.  Standing on the top of a mountain, looking out over the Pacific ocean, brings a feeling of freedom to my soul.

This year we hiked to the upper Makua caves in Makaha.  Ryker, Tay, Q, Matthew P. and Cathy P. were with me this year, (with Atlas and Orson along for the ride).

It was approximately .6 miles, straight up the side of the mountain.  More rock climbing than hiking really.  It was challenging and very fun.  It was worth the effort.  I would recommend going earlier in the morning.  At noon we just about died from the heat.

Here are photos from this breathtaking location.