Tonight at yoga class we were working on opening up our shoulders. My shoulders are typically tight, and I have to consciously remember to roll them down and away from my ears. Shoulder work takes effort for me, and tonight was no exception. While we were in the middle of a particularly challenging pose with a very small movement we switched quickly from stretching shoulders into opening up our chest. The instructor explained that when our shoulders are tight, it makes it difficult for our chest to open. The tight shoulders pull our chest inward.
At that moment my understanding opened up and I made a connection. When we shoulder too many burdens, carry more than our own load, it makes it difficult for our hearts to be open. The emotional, energetic weight on our shoulders forces our hearts to close-in for protection.
Look at Atlas. Where is his heart? Can you see his chest? It's closed and protected, to garner the strength, to bare the load. He isn't standing - it's too much. It is not right for one person to carry the weight of the world. Even Atlas isn't really designed to do it for the long haul. Carrying that much takes it's toll, and severely limits the joy the barer can experience.
It is hard to love when we try to carry it all. We have to let those burdens go if we are to truly be open to love and be loved. The burdens are not ours to shoulder. We need to shrug them off, let them roll on by, and open up our hearts and embrace the love. Go ahead and shrug.
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